Would you be surprised if we told you that most adults are not adults? No, this is not a judgement; it’s a fact. I’m talking of the psychological hold that the inner child has over adulthood. Though you may be convinced that you have thrown out and overcome all the emotional baggage of childhood, sadly that is often not the case. The emotional and mental energies, the pain body, and the belief system are based upon experiences of childhood that we were unable to process, and which created the dark wounds within us. Many spend numerous hours, if not months, trying to heal the inner child. To little avail. External pain continually triggers the inner wounds. The reason is NOT ineffectual healing. The reason is lack of understanding of the wounds. 

No one can heal your wounds for you. Let us repeat that… No one can heal your wounds for you! Till you have understood at a deep, core, level why your wounds are present, why they have not yet been released, how you can fully and completely release them, and how you can start over again on your terms, you shall continue to be caught in stifling patterns of unfulfilling relationships, failures, sickness, scarcities, disappointments, and insecurities.